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What does it mean?
External expectations and conflicts make it increasingly difficult to maintain kindness.
In plain terms
People pressure you and fight, making it hard to be nice.
What can you take from it?
Kindness is harder when others demand your energy.

Where it applies

  • living in a community
  • navigating arguments
  • setting boundaries

Putting it to work

  • recognize when you are drained
  • prioritize your peace

Questions to consider

  • When is it hardest to be kind?
  • Who sets your standards?

Another view

Kindness can sometimes be a choice regardless of external pressure.

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