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What does it mean?
Like many youths, the author tried hard to be unhappy, emulating tragic literary heroes.
In plain terms
As a young man, I tried to be unhappy like tragic characters.
What can you take from it?
Adolescents often adopt dramatic sadness as a form of identity.

Where it applies

  • teenage years
  • literary study
  • psychology

Putting it to work

  • recognize performative sadness
  • explore healthy coping

Questions to consider

  • Why do young people embrace sadness?
  • Is suffering a part of growing up?

Another view

Not all youth intentionally seek unhappiness.

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