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What does it mean?
Vanity is a futile pursuit because it leaves the inner self empty.
In plain terms
Caring about looks does not make you happy inside.
What can you take from it?
External validation fails to satisfy deep needs.

Where it applies

  • social media usage
  • self-image issues

Putting it to work

  • seek internal validation
  • question self-worth

Questions to consider

  • What truly satisfies you?
  • Why seek approval?

Another view

It generalizes all forms of self-care.

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