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What does it mean?
Grief allows one to see the world's pain and love humanity because of it.
In plain terms
Seeing pain makes you love people more.
What can you take from it?
Shared suffering connects people.

Where it applies

  • dealing with loss
  • loving others
  • social work

Putting it to work

  • practicing empathy
  • understanding others pain

Questions to consider

  • What teaches you to love others?
  • Can pain build connection?

Another view

It assumes grief is the only path to love.

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