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What does it mean?
Kabir poses a relational puzzle involving three parties, suggesting that identity and connection are intertwined and need resolution.
In plain terms
He asks how to resolve the confusion between you, him, and himself.
What can you take from it?
Resolve relational identity puzzles by understanding your connections.

Where it applies

  • family disputes
  • friendship dynamics
  • identity crisis

Putting it to work

  • meditate on relationships
  • clarify roles

Questions to consider

  • How do you define your relation to others?
  • What binds you together?

Another view

The quote is poetic and may lack practical steps for resolution.

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  2. I felt in need of a great pilgrimage so I sat still for three days and God came to me.

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  3. I am not a Hindu, Nor a Muslim am I! I am this body, a play Of five elements; a drama Of the spirit dancing With joy and sorrow.

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