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What does it mean?
Trying to fight without bloodshed is a dangerous fallacy because kindness leads to costly mistakes.
In plain terms
Being too kind in war causes worse problems.
What can you take from it?
Do not soften your approach out of misplaced kindness.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • negotiation
  • ethics

Putting it to work

  • assess risks
  • avoid sentimentality
  • plan for harm

Questions to consider

  • Is kindness a weakness?
  • What is the real goal?

Another view

Restraint can sometimes prevent escalation.

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