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What does it mean?
People who seem interesting sometimes try too hard and lose their natural appeal.
In plain terms
Simple people know love best; fancy ones try too hard.
What can you take from it?
Authenticity attracts more than effort.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • friendship
  • social networking

Putting it to work

  • being genuine
  • simplifying presentation

Questions to consider

  • Are you being yourself?
  • Do you over-explain yourself?

Another view

Effort can be necessary for self-improvement.

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