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What does it mean?
She suggests that women without conventional beauty may gain more insight into men through observation rather than attention.
In plain terms
Plain women observe men more closely than beautiful women who are often the center of attention.
What can you take from it?
Observation often yields more insight than being the focus of attention.

Where it applies

  • dating advice
  • social observation
  • gender studies

Putting it to work

  • listen more than perform
  • observe social interactions

Questions to consider

  • Does attention obscure understanding?
  • How do you learn about others?

Another view

Beauty does not prevent insight, and plainness does not guarantee it.

More from Katharine Hepburn

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  2. Barbara Walters: So, Kate, do you even own a skirt? Katharine Hepburn: I own one, Barbara. I shall wear it to your funeral.

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  3. Not everyone is lucky enough to understand how delicious it is to suffer.

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