Someone asked someone who was about my age: 'How are you?' The answer was, 'Fine. If you don't ask for details.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often say they are fine to hide their true struggles when asked about their well-being.
- In plain terms
- Saying you are fine might mean you are not.
- What can you take from it?
- Superficial greetings may mask real pain.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you respond to how are you?
- Who can you really talk to?
Another view
Sometimes people genuinely mean fine.
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