When I kiss my sons on the mouth, people look at me oddly. They look at closeness as a weakness. But a boy needs physical closeness with his father as well as with his mother.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Physical affection between fathers and sons is vital even if society views it as weak. Boys need closeness from both parents.
- In plain terms
- Boys need physical closeness from their fathers too, not just mothers.
- What can you take from it?
- Do not let cultural norms deny boys physical affection from fathers.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you show affection?
- Does gender shape your parenting?
Another view
Some cultures view male intimacy differently.
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