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What does it mean?
Physical affection between fathers and sons is vital even if society views it as weak. Boys need closeness from both parents.
In plain terms
Boys need physical closeness from their fathers too, not just mothers.
What can you take from it?
Do not let cultural norms deny boys physical affection from fathers.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • family dynamics
  • raising boys

Putting it to work

  • hug your children
  • challenge stereotypes

Questions to consider

  • How do you show affection?
  • Does gender shape your parenting?

Another view

Some cultures view male intimacy differently.

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