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What does it mean?
I felt proud of being gay even though I hadn't fully accepted it yet.
In plain terms
I claimed pride before truly feeling it.
What can you take from it?
Identity can be claimed before fully understood.

Where it applies

  • coming out
  • joining activist groups

Putting it to work

  • express identity while learning more about yourself

Questions to consider

  • How do you reconcile claimed identity with personal feelings?
  • What steps help genuine acceptance?

Another view

Premature pride can create internal conflict.

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