'We're having a celebration, so all sorts of things have been said which are not true,' I said. 'That's how to act at a party.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Social gatherings require polite fictions and untrue statements to function.
- In plain terms
- Parties involve saying things that are not true.
- What can you take from it?
- Politeness often involves white lies.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is lying polite?
- Why do we need social fictions?
Another view
Constant dishonesty can erode trust.
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