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I am honorary president of the American Humanist Association, having succeeded the late, great, spectacularly prolific writer and scientist, Dr. Isaac Asimov in that essentially functionless capacity. At an A.H.A. memorial service for my predecessor I said, 'Isaac is up in Heaven now.' That was the funniest thing I could have said to an audience of humanists. It rolled them in the aisles. Mirth! Several minutes had to pass before something resembling solemnity could be restored. I made that joke, of course, before my first near-death experience - the accidental one. So when my own time comes to join the choir invisible or whatever, God forbid, I hope someone will say, 'He's up in Heaven now.' Who really knows? I could have dreamed all this. My epitaph in any case? 'Everything was beautiful. Nothing hurt.' I will have gotten off so light, whatever the heck it is that was going on.

Kurt Vonnegut#166

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Vonnegut jokes about heaven and an epitaph to cope with mortality, blending humor with a longing for peace.
In plain terms
He uses jokes about death to stay calm and hope for peace.
What can you take from it?
Humor can soften fears of death.

Where it applies

  • memorial services
  • near-death experiences
  • writing epitaphs

Putting it to work

  • craft a personal epitaph
  • use humor to face mortality
  • value peace over pain

Questions to consider

  • What would your epitaph say?
  • How do you face mortality?

Another view

The humor may undercut genuine spiritual or existential seriousness.

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