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What does it mean?
Sterne argues that while hypocrisy is bad, the critical judgments of others are the most irritating form of social cant.
In plain terms
Being critical of others is more annoying than being hypocritical.
What can you take from it?
Avoid being overly critical of others to reduce social friction.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • reviews
  • daily conversation

Putting it to work

  • pause before criticizing
  • focus on self-improvement

Questions to consider

  • How often do I criticize others unnecessarily?
  • Is my criticism helpful or just annoying?

Another view

Criticism can sometimes be necessary for growth or accountability.

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