It had ever been the custom of the family, and by length of time was almost become a matter of common right, that the eldest son of it should have free ingress, egress, and regress into foreign parts before marriage, - not only for the sake of bettering his own private parts, by the benefit of exercise and change of so much air - but simply for the mere delectation of his fancy, by the feather put into his cap, of having been abroad.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Old family customs often grant the eldest son freedom to travel abroad before marriage for his own enjoyment.
- In plain terms
- The oldest son gets to travel before marrying because of family tradition.
- What can you take from it?
- Respect traditions but evaluate their personal value.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What family traditions do I follow?
- Do I benefit from them?
Another view
Traditions can sometimes privilege one gender or child unfairly.
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