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It had ever been the custom of the family, and by length of time was almost become a matter of common right, that the eldest son of it should have free ingress, egress, and regress into foreign parts before marriage, - not only for the sake of bettering his own private parts, by the benefit of exercise and change of so much air - but simply for the mere delectation of his fancy, by the feather put into his cap, of having been abroad.

Laurence Sterne#21

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Old family customs often grant the eldest son freedom to travel abroad before marriage for his own enjoyment.
In plain terms
The oldest son gets to travel before marrying because of family tradition.
What can you take from it?
Respect traditions but evaluate their personal value.

Where it applies

  • family planning
  • inheritance
  • social norms

Putting it to work

  • review family rules
  • plan meaningful trips

Questions to consider

  • What family traditions do I follow?
  • Do I benefit from them?

Another view

Traditions can sometimes privilege one gender or child unfairly.

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