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What does it mean?
Love needs surprise and spontaneity; routine kills passion.
In plain terms
Predictability ends love; keep things surprising.
What can you take from it?
Keep love alive with surprises.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • dating
  • marriage

Putting it to work

  • plan surprises
  • avoid routine
  • seek novelty

Questions to consider

  • How do you keep love surprising?
  • Is routine always bad?

Another view

Stability is also vital for long-term love.

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