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What does it mean?
Sometimes pursuing a goal directly hinders success; a different strategy may be required.
In plain terms
Chasing things directly isn't always the best way to get them.
What can you take from it?
Use indirect strategies when direct pursuit fails.

Where it applies

  • negotiation
  • dating

Putting it to work

  • reassess approach
  • be patient

Questions to consider

  • What is your strategy?
  • When do you let go?

Another view

Sometimes direct action is necessary to achieve a goal.

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