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What does it mean?
Creating children carries a heavy duty; failing them is a grave moral failure.
In plain terms
Making kids means you must not fail them.
What can you take from it?
Creation entails a duty not to fail.

Where it applies

  • raising children
  • family life
  • caregiving

Putting it to work

  • honor commitment
  • prioritize children

Questions to consider

  • How do you define failing them?
  • What duty do you owe?

Another view

Perfection is impossible; all parents fail sometimes.

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