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What does it mean?
Sexual compatibility depends on both having a partner and being skilled individually.
In plain terms
You need a partner and your own skill.
What can you take from it?
Intimacy requires mutual and individual effort.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • marriage
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • communicate needs
  • develop confidence

Questions to consider

  • What makes a partnership work?
  • How much is individual vs shared?

Another view

It reduces intimacy to transactional skill.

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