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What does it mean?
Cultural norms dictate how physical contact is interpreted, often masking harassment as friendliness based on nationality.
In plain terms
Harassment gets called friendly because of who is doing it.
What can you take from it?
Question cultural justifications for uncomfortable behavior.

Where it applies

  • travel
  • workplace
  • social interactions

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • challenge excuses
  • trust feelings

Questions to consider

  • When is behavior friendly or invasive?
  • Who gets a pass on boundaries?

Another view

Some cultures genuinely have looser physical norms.

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