If a stranger taps you on the ass and says, 'How's the little lady today!' you will probably cringe. But if he's an American, he's only being friendly.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Cultural norms dictate how physical contact is interpreted, often masking harassment as friendliness based on nationality.
- In plain terms
- Harassment gets called friendly because of who is doing it.
- What can you take from it?
- Question cultural justifications for uncomfortable behavior.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is behavior friendly or invasive?
- Who gets a pass on boundaries?
Another view
Some cultures genuinely have looser physical norms.
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