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What does it mean?
Using humor to respond to fear or avoidance from strangers.
In plain terms
When people hide from you, make a joke to lighten the mood.
What can you take from it?
Use humor to defuse awkward or fearful situations.

Where it applies

  • awkward encounters
  • public spaces
  • misunderstanding

Putting it to work

  • use humor to connect
  • diffuse tension
  • respond to fear

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle fear from others?
  • When do you use humor?

Another view

Humor might not work in all confrontational contexts.

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