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About this quote

What does it mean?
Cho prefers having a gay child over a violent one, using dark humor to reframe LGBTQ+ identity as safer and less threatening than school violence.
In plain terms
Being gay is less harmful to society than being violent.
What can you take from it?
Queer identity is not a danger to others.

Where it applies

  • family discussions
  • anti-gay prejudice

Putting it to work

  • reframe LGBTQ+ fears
  • prioritize safety over bias

Questions to consider

  • Why is being gay seen as worse than violence?
  • What fears drive anti-gay sentiment?

Another view

Not all stereotypes about violence are equally harmful.

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