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What does it mean?
Things that cannot be forced to happen also cannot be stopped from happening.
In plain terms
If you can't force something, you can't stop it either.
What can you take from it?
Let go of trying to control the uncontrollable.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal struggles

Putting it to work

  • acceptance
  • releasing control

Questions to consider

  • What can we truly control?
  • Is resistance futile?

Another view

Some things can be hindered even if not forced.

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