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What does it mean?
People often seem less impressive in reality than their curated public personas.
In plain terms
Real people are usually less polished than their edited images.
What can you take from it?
Expectations based on curated images often lead to disappointment.

Where it applies

  • meeting celebrities
  • social media interactions
  • first dates

Putting it to work

  • managing expectations
  • valuing authenticity
  • media literacy

Questions to consider

  • Why do we expect perfection from others?
  • How does editing change perception?

Another view

Some people genuinely are better in person than online.

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