It (marriage) happens as with cages: the birds without despair to get in, and those within despair of getting out.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often want what they cannot have and want to escape what they chose.
- In plain terms
- Freedom makes us want constraints, and constraints make us want freedom.
- What can you take from it?
- Desire often opposes our current state.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you seeking what you have?
- Why is freedom both desired and feared?
Another view
Some people are content in their chosen paths.
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