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What does it mean?
Lying destroys trust, which is the only bond between people.
In plain terms
Lying is bad because words are how we connect.
What can you take from it?
Value honesty to maintain human connection.

Where it applies

  • conflicts
  • relationships
  • negotiations

Putting it to work

  • be truthful
  • keep promises

Questions to consider

  • Why is honesty hard?
  • How do lies hurt trust?

Another view

White lies are sometimes used to protect feelings.

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