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What does it mean?
Speak openly about your thoughts without shame.
In plain terms
If your thoughts are not shameful, your words should not be either.
What can you take from it?
Honesty requires aligning speech with your thoughts.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • intimate relationships
  • workplace communication

Putting it to work

  • practice candor
  • identify sources of shame
  • speak truth

Questions to consider

  • What do you hide that you should say?
  • Where does shame block truth?

Another view

Some thoughts may be better kept private for social harmony.

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