Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Maintain personal boundaries by helping others without losing your own identity.
- In plain terms
- Help others, but keep your true self for yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Balance generosity with self-preservation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you last lose yourself helping someone?
- How do you define your boundaries?
Another view
Sometimes helping others requires sacrificing personal time or resources.
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