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Whatever happened to me in my life, happened to me as a writer of plays. I'd fall in love, or fall in lust. And at the height of my passion, I would think, 'So this is how it feels,' and I would tie it up in pretty words. I watched my life as if it were happening to someone else. My son died. And I was hurt, but I watched my hurt, and even relished it, a little, for now I could write a real death, a true loss. My heart was broken by my dark lady, and I wept, in my room, alone; but while I wept, somewhere inside I smiled. For I knew I could take my broken heart and place it on the stage of The Globe, and make the pit cry tears of their own.

Neil Gaiman#7

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The author processes personal tragedy by observing it as material for writing.
In plain terms
He turned his pain into stories.
What can you take from it?
Art can come from personal loss.

Where it applies

  • creative process
  • grief
  • artistic reflection

Putting it to work

  • channel grief
  • observe self
  • create art

Questions to consider

  • Can grief improve art?
  • How do you handle loss?

Another view

Viewing pain as material can seem exploitative.

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