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What does it mean?
The speaker suggests avoiding difficult questions to avoid lying. It is a pact to keep things simple and avoid conflict through silence.
In plain terms
If you don't ask, I won't have to lie.
What can you take from it?
Avoiding questions can prevent the need to lie.

Where it applies

  • sensitive conversations
  • workplace
  • personal privacy

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • choose topics wisely
  • be direct when possible

Questions to consider

  • When is silence better than speaking?
  • Is avoiding a question honest?

Another view

Avoiding questions often leads to mistrust rather than honesty.

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