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What does it mean?
Goldsmith jokes that modest men do not succeed much with women.
In plain terms
Modest men don't win many women.
What can you take from it?
Confidence often helps in romance.

Where it applies

  • Dating
  • Social advice
  • Self presentation

Putting it to work

  • Adjusting self presentation
  • Balancing confidence and modesty

Questions to consider

  • Does modesty hurt dating success?
  • Is confidence more valued than humility?

Another view

It generalizes that modesty is always a liability in love.

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