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What does it mean?
Self-perception improves with distance, allowing clearer judgment of past self.
In plain terms
Time helps you see yourself more clearly.
What can you take from it?
Distance from self allows better understanding.

Where it applies

  • middle age
  • retrospection
  • coaching

Putting it to work

  • reflect from afar
  • avoid self-deception

Questions to consider

  • How do you see your past self?
  • Does time bring clarity?

Another view

Distance can also lead to disconnection.

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