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What does it mean?
Growing up involves recognizing past folly while accepting responsibility for one's path.
In plain terms
Seeing yourself as a child learning to be an adult.
What can you take from it?
Maturity means accepting past mistakes without bitterness.

Where it applies

  • becoming a parent
  • aging
  • mentoring

Putting it to work

  • accept past errors
  • guide next generation

Questions to consider

  • How do you view your younger self?
  • What does maturity mean?

Another view

Past pain can linger despite acceptance.

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