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What does it mean?
High empathy can become a burden when exploited by others for guilt.
In plain terms
Feeling others pain hurts when used against you.
What can you take from it?
Protect your empathy from manipulation.

Where it applies

  • family dynamics
  • caregiving
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • recognize manipulation

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle guilt?
  • Is empathy a strength or weakness?

Another view

Lacking empathy can lead to coldness.

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