He had an overdeveloped sense of empathy. He could imagine other peoples suffering, and felt it himself. His mother had used that against him all his life, torturing him with guilt for all the suffering of her life
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- High empathy can become a burden when exploited by others for guilt.
- In plain terms
- Feeling others pain hurts when used against you.
- What can you take from it?
- Protect your empathy from manipulation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle guilt?
- Is empathy a strength or weakness?
Another view
Lacking empathy can lead to coldness.
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