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I started hearing from families who had missing members, many of them young kids on our campus, and they all would describe the same sorts of things. A sudden change of personality, a new way of talking...and then they would disappear. And bingo, it was the same sort of thing as with the Korean War prisoners, the same sort of thought-reform and social controls. You find it again and again, any time people feel vulnerable. There are always sharpies around who want to hornswoggle people.

Margaret Singer#4

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Families report similar changes in missing members, such as personality shifts and new speech patterns, before disappearance. This pattern mirrors thought-reform and social controls seen in Korean War prisoners, exploiting vulnerability.
In plain terms
Missing people often show the same changes before vanishing, similar to brainwashing used on prisoners.
What can you take from it?
Be alert to sudden personality changes in loved ones as signs of control.

Where it applies

  • family concerns
  • missing persons
  • group dynamics

Putting it to work

  • monitor behavioral changes
  • support vulnerable individuals
  • recognize control tactics

Questions to consider

  • What signs suggest someone is under undue influence?
  • How can families protect vulnerable members?

Another view

Not all personality changes indicate cult involvement or coercion.

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