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What does it mean?
Someone questions whether the listener will abandon a part of themselves represented by another person.
In plain terms
She is like another part of you. Will you leave her?
What can you take from it?
Leaving someone can feel like losing yourself.

Where it applies

  • during a breakup
  • when choosing loyalty
  • in moral dilemmas

Putting it to work

  • consider what you lose in choices
  • stay true to yourself

Questions to consider

  • Who represents your other self?
  • What do you sacrifice for others?

Another view

It conflates another person with your own identity.

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