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What does it mean?
Knowledge and love are intertwined; knowing someone deeply can lead to loving them, and loving them can deepen your knowledge.
In plain terms
Knowing and loving someone often happen together in a cycle.
What can you take from it?
Familiarity and affection fuel each other.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • spend time together
  • learn their history
  • express care

Questions to consider

  • Did knowing lead to loving or vice versa?
  • How much do you know those you love?

Another view

Sometimes you can know someone well without loving them at all.

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  3. He wasn't telling the truth, with trumpets; he was telling the truth, the story you wouldn't think to doubt because it's taken for granted.

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