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What does it mean?
The speaker finds existence pointless without a specific person.
In plain terms
Without you, my life has no purpose.
What can you take from it?
Love can define your reason for living.

Where it applies

  • grief counseling
  • relationship breakup
  • suicide prevention

Putting it to work

  • explore support networks
  • rebuild self-worth

Questions to consider

  • What gives your life meaning without others?
  • Can meaning exist in solitude?

Another view

This view risks making self-worth entirely dependent on another.

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