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What does it mean?
Some moments require complete honesty between friends, but not this one.
In plain terms
Not every situation calls for total honesty with a friend.
What can you take from it?
Choose honesty wisely.

Where it applies

  • conflicts
  • personal secrets
  • social gatherings

Putting it to work

  • assess consequences
  • protect feelings

Questions to consider

  • When is honesty more harmful than helpful?
  • How do I decide what to share?

Another view

Excessive discretion can erode trust over time.

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