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What does it mean?
Stoic appearances can mask deep fear. Others may mistake composure for coldness.
In plain terms
People think you are calm when you are actually scared.
What can you take from it?
Your calm may hide fear from others.

Where it applies

  • stressful moments
  • public speaking
  • personal crises

Putting it to work

  • recognize your fear
  • show vulnerability
  • explain your state

Questions to consider

  • Do you mask your fear?
  • Have others misunderstood your calm?

Another view

Not everyone who appears calm is actually afraid.

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