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What does it mean?
People use uncertainty to hide their true intentions or beliefs.
In plain terms
Saying maybe often means someone is hiding the truth.
What can you take from it?
Watch for hesitation when someone claims neutrality.

Where it applies

  • negotiations
  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • question vague statements
  • seek clarity
  • observe body language

Questions to consider

  • When did you last use maybe to hide your opinion?
  • How can you tell the difference between doubt and deceit?

Another view

Sometimes people say perhaps because they genuinely are unsure.

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