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What does it mean?
Uncertainty about another person's motives or tone.
In plain terms
It is hard to know when someone is joking.
What can you take from it?
Close relationships still have communication gaps.

Where it applies

  • family dynamics
  • arguments
  • daily conversation

Putting it to work

  • ask for clarification
  • observe tone
  • build trust

Questions to consider

  • When was the last time you misread someone?
  • How do you know when someone is serious?

Another view

Sometimes people are simply unclear themselves.

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