There was majesty in the child, and only banality in this marriage:marriage is about banality. Its purpose is banality, to create an environment of surpassing safety and predictability for young children to grow up in, the foundation of life, the root of inner peace. What do I want for him, a troublesome, restless woman? A queen?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marriage provides safety and predictability for children, which can seem banal compared to a child's majesty.
- In plain terms
- Marriage is meant to be safe and boring so children can grow up well.
- What can you take from it?
- Stability in family life often requires sacrificing excitement.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is routine necessary for raising children?
- Does safety kill passion?
Another view
It dismisses the potential depth of romantic relationships.
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