In the absence of understanding, that was a good a reason as any for living together and making babies and raising them up and throwing them out of the house and then going through the long slow decline together until one of them died and left the other alone again, understanding as little as ever about what their spouses really wanted, who they really were. Was that tragedy? Or was that comedy? Was there really any difference?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marriage often involves living together through life stages without fully understanding each other, raising children, and facing decline and death, blurring the line between tragedy and comedy.
- In plain terms
- Couples live out their lives together without truly knowing each other, making their shared journey a mix of sorrow and humor.
- What can you take from it?
- Understanding between spouses is rare, making life's shared journey ambiguous.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is life a tragedy or comedy?
- Do spouses ever truly understand each other?
Another view
This view may overlook relationships where deep understanding is achieved.
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