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What does it mean?
Even if a painful event is short, its emotional impact can linger long after it ends.
In plain terms
Short pain can leave long lasting feelings.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge that emotional recovery takes time.

Where it applies

  • post conflict
  • loss
  • separation

Putting it to work

  • journaling feelings
  • seeking support
  • allowing time

Questions to consider

  • Why does the body hold onto pain longer than the event?
  • How do you distinguish between memory and current feeling?

Another view

It assumes the pain is purely internal rather than situational.

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