And if it tortures you to know that another man was with her in her life, console yourself with this: he only knew her but the once
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Knowing someone else shared a moment with a loved one is less painful if that connection was brief or shallow.
- In plain terms
- Comfort yourself by remembering the other person didn't know your loved one very well.
- What can you take from it?
- Brief connections matter less than deep ones.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What comforts you in loss?
- How do you measure connection?
Another view
Any connection can hurt even if it was short.
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