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What does it mean?
True love sees the person beneath their trauma, not just their idealized form.
In plain terms
He loved her for who she was, not just her beauty, because he understood her pain.
What can you take from it?
Love accepts the whole person, including their wounds.

Where it applies

  • trauma recovery
  • marriage
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • seeing beyond surface
  • healing relationships
  • empathy

Questions to consider

  • Who sees the real you?
  • How do you love others?

Another view

Love alone cannot always fix deep trauma.

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