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What does it mean?
People often love those who prioritize kindness and others over personal plans.
In plain terms
She loved him because he cared about people more than his own goals.
What can you take from it?
Kindness and selflessness attract love.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • dating
  • teamwork

Putting it to work

  • valuing people over plans
  • leading with kindness
  • building trust

Questions to consider

  • What traits do you value most?
  • Do you prioritize people or plans?

Another view

Selflessness can sometimes be exploited.

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