Still the girl had found her lover - a dreamer, a good man, a kind man who cared less for his plan than for the people in it. That is how he was unlike you, and that was why she loved him
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often love those who prioritize kindness and others over personal plans.
- In plain terms
- She loved him because he cared about people more than his own goals.
- What can you take from it?
- Kindness and selflessness attract love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What traits do you value most?
- Do you prioritize people or plans?
Another view
Selflessness can sometimes be exploited.
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