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What does it mean?
The speaker acknowledges both parties have flaws but sees potential for improvement over time.
In plain terms
We both have issues but we can fix them later.
What can you take from it?
Accept imperfections and focus on future growth.

Where it applies

  • post-breakup reconciliation
  • marriage counseling
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge faults
  • plan for change
  • stay optimistic

Questions to consider

  • Are you ready to do the work?
  • What does renovation mean to you?

Another view

It assumes both parties are willing to change.

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