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What does it mean?
Outward strength often hides inner vulnerability.
In plain terms
Someone who looks tough might actually be very fragile.
What can you take from it?
Look past tough exteriors to see vulnerability.

Where it applies

  • counseling
  • friendship
  • workplace

Putting it to work

  • offer support
  • listen deeply
  • build trust

Questions to consider

  • Who hides their fragility?
  • How do you protect yourself?

Another view

Not everyone with a tough exterior is fragile.

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